We’re taught to recognise pressure in men’s bodies from a young age. What we’re rarely taught is that women experience it too — and that female ejaculation can be one of the body’s quiet, remarkable ways of releasing that pressure once we’re given the language, the curiosity, and a little courage to listen.

The Oscars told me this film was brilliant. The next two and a half hours suggested otherwise.

The room nobody noticed became the room everybody loves — deep blue, fully itself, and shared with travellers from everywhere.