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Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Blue Room — Desk Corner After photo of the Blue Room showing the desk corner with wooden shelving, deep blue walls, and warm timber furniture. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764120239094-EUN1V2H7QLR3BHZNM5P2/BR4.jpeg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Blue Room — Evening Mood After photo of the Blue Room at night, featuring the white bed, deep blue walls, soft lamplight and folded towels arranged on the bed. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764122819320-F9X8ABQN4QQNLYULLPIY/bathroom-renovation-demolition-hot-water-system.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Demolition — Hot Water System Demolition phase of the old bathroom, showing broken plasterboard, exposed brick walls, and the large original hot water system before removal. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764123130297-541H4EESVKLMYAXH9ATA/bathroom-renovation-exposed-studs-insulation.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Demolition — Exposed Wall Framing Demolition stage of the bathroom showing exposed timber studs, stacked insulation batts, visible plumbing and electrical wiring, and the old hot water system still in place. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764123661487-QS98V99FP9H8C21AIN2M/bathroom-renovation-floor-cutting-plumbing-prep.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Floor Cut for Plumbing Renovation stage showing the bathroom subfloor with concrete cut to access plumbing, exposed brick walls with new timber framing, and tools set up for drainage preparation. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764124125434-YSG5U2GTXWZ3E5DDVG35/bathroom-renovation-drainage-installation-plumbing.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — New Drainage Installed Renovation stage showing new PVC drainage pipes set into the concrete floor, exposed timber framing and brick walls, and renovation materials such as buckets, cardboard, and wiring. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764124977893-3WNQXR88CYMDLJYDP18H/bathroom-renovation-wall-framing-plumbing-rough-in.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Wall Framing and Plumbing Rough-In Renovation progress showing completed wall framing, exposed brickwork, newly installed hot and cold plumbing lines, an open ceiling with visible joists, and a ladder positioned for electrical and ceiling work. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764125315867-YPETZEFBKYNHREV4HTCN/bathroom-renovation-plasterboard-installation.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Plasterboard Installed Renovation stage showing newly installed plasterboard walls, exposed doorway framing, and a work table with tools set up for the next phase of construction. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764125624597-DGM2QQ41P68XJ0RNKMRH/bathroom-renovation-vanity-wall-plasterboard.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Vanity Wall Sheet Installed Renovation stage showing the vanity wall with freshly installed plasterboard, cut-outs for plumbing and power, and tools and Gyprock compound positioned on the concrete floor. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764125892834-Y2H57GDR20BU4TCZOAI0/bathroom-renovation-plasterboard-walls-floor-prep.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Walls Sheet Completed Renovation progress showing plasterboard fully installed on the bathroom walls, a construction light illuminating the space, a ladder positioned for ceiling work, and early floor preparation underway. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764126228973-BUIE96VJR7NM37DSSUC7/bathroom-renovation-plaster-stopping-and-cornices.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Plaster Stopping Completed Renovation stage showing the bathroom walls and ceiling after plaster stopping, with smoothed joins, new cornices installed, and doorway framing visible against the natural light from the adjoining room. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764127218979-WGBD6573JVE68XOBVDZR/bathroom-renovation-tiler-installing-subway-tiles.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Subway Tiles Being Installed Renovation stage showing a tiler installing August Blue glazed subway tiles along the lower bathroom wall, with waterproofed blue walls behind and tools and materials spread across the concrete floor. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764127640767-TZ1PUAKCO39GWRA890HO/bathroom-renovation-tiles-installed-heated-towel-rail.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Tiles and Towel Rail Installed Renovation progress shot showing August Blue subway tiles completed to full height across the bathroom walls, with a black heated towel rail newly installed and plumbing fixtures awaiting final fittings. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764127476794-H40TY4ECLIPD0KLXAJQE/bathroom-renovation-subway-tiles-progress-wall.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764129257301-H2FM8KKVOXV2QAW3S0DW/bathroom-renovation-toilet-installed-tiles-complete.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Toilet Installed Renovation progress showing the newly installed Decina Renee rimless toilet against fully tiled August Blue subway walls, with painter’s tape along the top edge and tools and drop sheets still on the floor. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764129479276-GM6LNGORKAPJ1MYL1YXO/bathroom-renovation-vanity-plumbing-shaving-cabinet-install.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Vanity & Cabinet Install Progress photo showing the vanity plumbing installed and the Arova shaving cabinet frame mounted on the newly finished bathroom wall, with wiring ready for the mirror light and flooring already laid. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764129732842-9RXHZBTX6JNWX9C21HKU/bathroom-renovation-vanity-installation-shaving-cabinet-progress.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Vanity Unit Installed Progress photo showing the new white Arova vanity unit installed beneath the partially constructed shaving cabinet, with plumbing and wiring ready for final fixtures during the bathroom renovation. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764129986466-QZNBH0S6UXM8XWR014RX/bathroom-renovation-shower-floor-herringbone-tiling-progress.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Shower Floor Herringbone Tiling in Progress Progress image of the bathroom renovation showing the Blue Room’s shower area tiled with August Blue subway tiles and the new white herringbone shower floor being laid, with spacers and painter’s tape still in place. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764130208608-KTGLEH9OC4W6RCQWQMTF/bathroom-renovation-black-framed-shower-screen-installation.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Black-Framed Shower Screen Installed Progress photo of the Blue Room bathroom renovation showing the newly installed black-framed shower screen, August Blue subway tile walls, herringbone shower floor, wall-mounted black heated towel rail, and new toilet awaiting final fit-off. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764130491766-V84I2B4LY7MUVGF68GYH/bathroom-renovation-vanity-installation-mirror-cabinet.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Vanity and Mirror Cabinet Installed Installation progress of the Blue Room bathroom showing the new wall-mounted vanity with integrated basin, matte black mixer tap, and large mirrored shaving cabinet above, with the black-framed shower screen reflected in the mirror. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764130730914-4O9JMF51VNCFAKX80IKB/blue-room-bathroom-black-frame-shower-screen-subway-tiles.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Completed Shower and Toilet Installation Finished Blue Room bathroom featuring a black-framed glass shower screen, matte black shower fittings, heated towel rail, and soft green subway tiles, with a white toilet and herringbone-tiled shower base completing the renovation. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764130933338-1DQB0VN3G58XR8KJ9JO8/blue-room-bathroom-black-showerhead-subway-tiles.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Walk-In Shower with Matte Black Fittings Close-up of the finished walk-in shower in the Blue Room bathroom, featuring matte black rainfall and handheld showerheads, a black-framed glass screen, and soft green subway tiles with a white herringbone shower base. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764131145765-AWSHRDXTBTCKE9ERNWYT/blue-room-bathroom-toilet-black-fittings-subway-tiles.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Toilet and Black Fixtures Against Blue Subway Tiles The finished Blue Room bathroom showing a modern white toilet, matte black heated towel rail, matching black toilet roll holder, and soft blue subway tile walls with light timber-look flooring. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764131359679-YV8FKSPIR2TO2NQ83JVB/blue-room-bathroom-shower-floor-herringbone-tile-linear-drain.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Herringbone Shower Floor With Linear Drain Close-up of the Blue Room bathroom’s shower floor featuring white herringbone brick-look tiles and a sleek matte black linear drain, framed by soft blue subway-tiled walls. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764131748141-A8QF14VNEO6NINRCHKNS/blue-room-bathroom-wall-mural-sunset-landscape.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Sunset Landscape Bathroom Mural Soft sunset landscape mural in the Blue Room bathroom, featuring warm dusk tones and reflected light over sand and water beside the black-framed shower enclosure. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764131965082-DAH1F3I366P7OOD0ROY1/blue-room-bathroom-mural-and-shower-contrast.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Mural and Shower Contrast Close-up of the Blue Room bathroom showing the sunset wall mural beside the black-framed shower with blue subway tiles and matte black fixtures. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764132121670-5YWIS8Q1AUQAHDAQCNRM/blue-room-bathroom-mural-and-vanity.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - Mural and Vanity Detail Bathroom view showing the large sunset wall mural beside the white vanity with blue subway tile splashback and black accessories. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764132772903-SYHPFII2N1ZHRRXE94EZ/blue-room-bathroom-vanity-and-mural-final.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1764132990567-DL5652491IHVLWFG641T/blue-room-bathroom-shower-and-toilet-final.jpg Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became The Blue Room - 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This is where I lost my Guinness virginity! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/be4d8e4d-d960-4153-9c2b-2946ea9c84d5/IMG_7441.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Stanley - beagle #2 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/3a687c33-f89c-41ea-ba20-0de7495461c1/IMG_7451.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse “National Famine Memorial” at Murrisk, County Mayo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/2dc6e8f5-a5b0-4f26-b7ec-0897e2bda8c7/IMG_7454.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Medieval abbey ruins and historic graveyard, County Mayo https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/81bfb3aa-2528-424e-a2f4-01654dbd28b3/IMG_7460.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The stone-vaulted interior of Ballintubber Abbey, with its altar and stained-glass windows, County Mayo https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/ab39ee6c-e9b5-43ff-840e-2f76e246f26c/IMG_7465.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The bathroom floor tiles at the house-sit, which reminded me of wagyu beef... https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/7787d068-792e-4637-977f-c172748e4c86/IMG_7474.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Highland cattle enjoying the sunshine in a grassy field near the Sligo coast. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/b46f651e-8e83-4cbc-86b3-bb71da7e21f4/IMG_7490.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A peaceful stretch of Donegal countryside, where wild grasses and gorse-covered hills roll gently towards a sheltered bay beneath a soft November sky. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/477f28bb-19a2-429b-b79c-cfbbfa59e6a3/IMG_7498.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A closer look at the towering rock faces of Sliabh Liag, County Donegal, with two dramatic sea stacks rising from the Atlantic below. The rugged cliffs reveal extraordinary layers of rock, weathered by centuries of wind and waves. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/25582759-1cfe-413f-8acb-c9cb8a81662b/IMG_7504.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse “I am wild, I am on the edge, I am Sliabh Liag.” A beautiful piece of writing from the visitor centre at Sliabh Liag, County Donegal, where the landscape speaks in its own voice. And having stood among those extraordinary cliffs, I couldn't agree more. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/e247fcdf-b412-4719-8136-e0020669f102/IMG_7526.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse My first look inside my lighthouse cottage. I was beside myself with excitement! And it was even lovelier than I'd imagined. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/c54f56f5-2c9d-4fc3-95af-64a65f83a0c6/IMG_7428.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse St. Andrew's Church, Dublin 2 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/88f94fb4-29c0-4ed5-8d0e-2ea082c5fe4d/IMG_7433.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The musician's circle, Cobblestone Pub, Dublin https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/d4700ef6-bd43-442e-af4a-1431b7039733/IMG_7445.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Butter wouldn't melt! This is a guy who would swipe your breakfast toast and then swear he hadn't. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/3e412c65-a819-4b60-a52d-03bd6c47b2f5/IMG_7450.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse National Famine Memorial’s skeletal coffin ship at Murrisk, County Mayo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/02e53770-da4f-4de7-9527-a46d79614cba/IMG_7455.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Clew Bay at low tide, beside Murrisk Abbey, County Mayo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/e8e094f6-4a03-4d15-9ef1-fff58312d826/IMG_7461.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Stone holy water font and plaque commemorating the founding of Ballintubber Abbey in 1216 by Cathal O’Conor, King of Connacht. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/a6d5bc58-bd69-4f2f-a8e6-2b350f95acde/IMG_7466.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Description of next digs https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/a01ffad0-e37f-4d77-90e2-aba89179517f/IMG_7476.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Benbulben rising beyond the coastal grasslands and waters of Streedagh, County Sligo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/e1f5474d-6b0e-47d3-875d-c40e7cc3633d/IMG_7492.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Just up the road from The Rusty Mackerel, a beautiful view across the sheltered waters of Donegal Bay, with green pastures, scattered cottages and rolling hills beyond. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/ac0b0593-07b1-43e2-87d9-150592a90d92/IMG_7499.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A moment at the magnificent Sliabh Liag cliffs in County Donegal, with the towering rock faces and Atlantic Ocean providing a spectacular backdrop. I might look formidably cool, but the icy wind was howling! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/cd3264e1-5539-4af6-8761-f8e82cddd3e3/IMG_7505.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Silver Strand Beach, Malin Beg, County Donegal. A perfect crescent of golden sand, sheltered by rugged headlands, with the Atlantic stretching away beyond. One of those places where the beauty of Ireland leaves you momentarily speechless. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/252d86db-3d12-4b7c-b564-a4629c33c436/IMG_7527.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse And the sweetest little kitchen, complete with a farmhouse sink overlooking the rugged landscape outside. I was in love with the place already. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/0334e966-3d6a-4507-aa9d-05c273697e46/IMG_7429.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse South Great George's Street, Dublin 2 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/df6c512e-b938-4ff2-8db2-805acde08a09/IMG_7434.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Jean, from Ireland but now a New York native, one of the 3 of us on the guided music tour https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/30eb75fb-8364-48e4-852a-aa42f73c3ead/IMG_7444.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Gorgeous orchid on Ballintubber house-sit kitchen window sill https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/a07e0f4c-7e9d-42db-ae5b-f8b9f112f629/IMG_7452.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A close-up showing the detail https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/2c680153-cafd-4e18-8c5e-a45ef675f5b0/IMG_7456.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The ruins of Murrisk Abbey and its historic graveyard, County Mayo https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/12224d08-d1e6-47dd-9ea8-804286401b22/IMG_7462.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Sculpture of the Virgin Mary holding the infant Jesus in the gardens of Ballintubber Abbey, County Mayo https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/45e4623e-3656-44af-9fb5-0e09a0b37280/IMG_7467.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse This sign made me laugh while walking the beagles in Ballintubber, County Mayo https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/2cb4f992-958b-423e-9854-9310010414b8/IMG_7477.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Streedagh Beach, County Sligo, with its sweeping sands, Atlantic waters and the mountains of Benbulben in the distance. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/bb6f0ca2-5469-4fa5-b942-c78ffe87e334/IMG_7494.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Looking across the tranquil Teelin Estuary towards the Atlantic, with sheep grazing on the green hillsides near The Rusty Mackerel, County Donegal. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/7a0393bd-d97c-4184-8238-f5ceb4f8993a/IMG_7501.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A panoramic view of the magnificent Sliabh Liag cliffs in County Donegal, stretching along the Atlantic coastline. Standing at the viewpoint gives some sense of the extraordinary scale of these towering sea cliffs. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/31acac48-50f4-4a51-9b65-3a2135859f2a/IMG_7506.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The quiet countryside above Silver Strand, Malin Beg, County Donegal. Rolling green fields, old stone boundaries and the Atlantic stretching towards the horizon. A landscape of extraordinary simplicity and beauty. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/d43ab11c-dc16-474f-9a7f-5549d347cf75/IMG_7528.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse And then I looked out of the kitchen window. A sheer drop to the rocks and sea below! Not your average kitchen view. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/33833a10-1519-41f4-ad53-b40784d8b670/IMG_7479.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The most laid-back Highland cattle in Ireland. Perfectly happy to sit in the sunshine and pose for photographs without a care in the world! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/139fb852-4dce-4ea2-a4e5-43797d7d1d86/IMG_7495.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The extraordinary stillness of the Teelin Estuary, County Donegal. Fishing boats rest on glassy waters beneath cloud-draped mountains, with the quiet beauty of Ireland's west coast on full display. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/90ca0710-c2c6-4c63-bf58-d1596748d242/IMG_7508.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Cill Ghabhlaigh – Doonalt, County Donegal. A wild stretch of Atlantic coastline, where ancient cliffs rise above the sea and the landscape seems almost untouched by time. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/b50804ad-6b22-4855-be4e-948e0af26cb2/IMG_7529.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse And my bedroom! I’d travelled halfway around the world to spend my 60th birthday at this lighthouse, and here I was, finally. My own cosy little room, the Atlantic outside the window, and the wonderful feeling that I’d chosen exactly the right place to be. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/3659a025-0dea-4ea9-b3d2-6074af669ead/IMG_7480.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Sunlit rocky shoreline at Mullaghmore Head, with layered rock ledges, a boulder-strewn beach and grassy cliffs overlooking the calm blue Atlantic Ocean. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/66ba813c-66b1-493a-850c-0d41c320f7a6/IMG_7509.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Gleann Gheis (Glengesh), County Donegal. I don't think I've ever seen a landscape quite like this. Even in November, with the colours fading into winter, it's extraordinary. And the road through it is quite something. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/f581420f-70b4-4aa1-815e-672cd8e9b859/IMG_7531.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The view from my bedroom window. The warm glow of the bedside lamp reflected in the glass, and beyond it, nothing but rocks, water and the fading evening light. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/f5950623-2002-4b55-8520-06c67c44118b/IMG_7481.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The winding coastal road around Mullaghmore Head, with Classiebawn Castle silhouetted against the afternoon sun and the Atlantic stretching into the distance. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/1794442961782-58323PUYYZ3BXZ1Y9C7R/IMG_7510.jpg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Gleann Gheis (Glengesh), County Donegal. The Glen of Spells. Its name comes from the ancient Irish tradition of the 'geis', a binding prohibition that could bring dishonour or death if broken. Even the landscape comes with a story in Ireland. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/87f39daf-236d-473a-aabb-7711081cd081/IMG_7532.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse And this was the view just outside my living room door! A little rocky cove, the Atlantic stretching out beyond it, and those magnificent cliffs opposite. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/053deaea-eaf9-4d41-af2b-a88dae4e1513/IMG_7483.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Classiebawn Castle silhouetted against the afternoon sky, overlooking Mullaghmore Head, County Sligo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/c110dec2-0483-4bb6-88c3-8479116317a0/IMG_7512.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Mount Errigal, near Gort an Choirce, County Donegal. Quite a sight to come across while driving through the Donegal countryside. Such a distinctive mountain, rising almost out of nowhere. I had to stop for a photograph. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/bfae7627-d3b2-4c30-bc96-fe8011a2d68d/IMG_7533.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse And my very own ‘patio’! A strip of grass on the edge of the Atlantic, with a view that went on forever. Not a bad spot to contemplate turning 60! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/21fd531f-f634-4569-bca2-fcbdb4c3f09a/IMG_7484.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A rather emphatic warning at Mullaghmore Head, County Sligo. Apparently, the Atlantic coastline isn't for the faint-hearted! https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/faea3d6c-7ee1-482e-9d9f-c8f68903b30e/IMG_7514.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse My 60th birthday in County Donegal. Everywhere I looked, the landscape and the extraordinary light reminded me of Turner paintings. It was like driving through an exhibition all day. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/61c8eb3e-cda8-400c-976d-ba91b3c4a616/IMG_7534.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse And even the bathroom had character! A lovely old-fashioned window, terracotta floor tiles and, rather unexpectedly, a washing machine. Everything I could possibly need for my little lighthouse adventure. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/7e89f36d-2390-48bc-b8e9-55d1156c4446/IMG_7485.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse The beautiful blue Atlantic at Mullaghmore Head, County Sligo, with rocky shelves extending into the sea and distant mountains on the horizon. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/ca40041d-f5b9-452c-9e9d-d2d9916b2fa3/IMG_7515.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Dún Lúiche (Dunlewey), County Donegal. Another view that had me pulling over on my birthday. The mountains seem to go on forever, and the little houses beneath them give you some idea of their scale. Ireland really does have a way of making you feel very small. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/0d109d68-6d8f-4aa3-83b5-e04805191057/IMG_7535.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A narrow, winding staircase connecting the two floors. Another little reminder that this was a lighthouse keeper’s cottage, not your average holiday accommodation. I loved it all the more for that. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/6f11e621-034b-4903-848d-469d8762750c/IMG_7486.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Cattle grazing beneath the afternoon sun, with the distinctive flat-topped silhouette of Benbulben rising in the distance, County Sligo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/15dfa6e3-bd28-4960-a272-b202f7ebe07f/IMG_7516.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Caisleán na dTuath (Cashel), County Donegal. Another lovely scene from my birthday drive. The still water, little stone walls and trees along the shore. Even under a grey November sky, there's so much to look at. I'm finding it very difficult to drive anywhere in Ireland without stopping for photographs. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/4b38b125-6855-43fc-b411-a40d90e81326/IMG_7536.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A little more exploring outside, and this was waiting for me. The rugged coastline, the extraordinary colour of the water, and the Atlantic stretching away into the evening. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/f1fac33d-231f-42d9-937a-9f264a046f1a/IMG_7487.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse A solitary cow enjoying the peace and quiet of the Sligo countryside, with the magnificent Benbulben mountain providing the backdrop. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/393c86da-b1cc-422e-bf5c-39a477f8f6a5/IMG_7518.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Doe Castle, County Donegal. I spotted this wonderful old castle across the water and initially thought it was on an island. It turns out to be on a little peninsula. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/688cbe2996403d0c8a3d3adc/0161e9ab-dd77-406d-826e-606c2a2973f6/IMG_7537.jpeg Turning 60 in Ireland | A Birthday at Fanad Head Lighthouse Fanad Head Lighthouse, where I spent my 60th birthday. I loved everything about this place, and being able to stay here for two nights made it even more special. 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