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      <image:caption>Peak fun-and-games energy: enjoy it, because it doesn’t last.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Nothing says ‘romance’ like being talked down to from the step of a private jet.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>At this point, even Ani’s scarf looks exhausted.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Ani looking for meaning; Ivan looking for the next distraction.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Utility Room in Its Original State</image:title>
      <image:caption>The former utility room before renovation, showing the slate-tiled floor, brick walls, freestanding wardrobe, and miscellaneous tools and storage crates.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Original Mudroom Bathroom</image:title>
      <image:caption>The compact original mudroom bathroom, featuring the small shower cubicle, toilet, and ageing tilework prior to renovation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Old Hot Water System Alcove</image:title>
      <image:caption>The original hot water system tucked into a narrow brick alcove beside the mudroom, highlighting the tight and utilitarian layout.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Original Ducted Vacuum Unit</image:title>
      <image:caption>The house’s old ducted vacuum cannister mounted against the brick wall in the utility space prior to renovation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Exposed Services Behind the Walls</image:title>
      <image:caption>An interior view behind the former utility room walls, showing insulation, ducting, and pipework uncovered during renovation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Original Plumbing and Electrical Setup</image:title>
      <image:caption>The pre-renovation plumbing and electrical junctions in the mudroom behind the hot water system, with exposed pipes, valves, insulation, and wiring.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Blue Room — Garden View</image:title>
      <image:caption>After photo of the Blue Room showing the white timber bed, deep blue walls, and large sliding doors opening to the garden with soft morning light.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Blue Room — Bed and Artwork</image:title>
      <image:caption>After photo of the Blue Room with a white bed frame, textured blue bedding, bedside table, lamp, and an abstract blue wall artwork above the bed.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Blue Room — Desk Corner</image:title>
      <image:caption>After photo of the Blue Room showing the desk corner with wooden shelving, deep blue walls, and warm timber furniture.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Blue Room — Evening Mood</image:title>
      <image:caption>After photo of the Blue Room at night, featuring the white bed, deep blue walls, soft lamplight and folded towels arranged on the bed.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Demolition — Hot Water System</image:title>
      <image:caption>Demolition phase of the old bathroom, showing broken plasterboard, exposed brick walls, and the large original hot water system before removal.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Demolition — Exposed Wall Framing</image:title>
      <image:caption>Demolition stage of the bathroom showing exposed timber studs, stacked insulation batts, visible plumbing and electrical wiring, and the old hot water system still in place.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Floor Cut for Plumbing</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation stage showing the bathroom subfloor with concrete cut to access plumbing, exposed brick walls with new timber framing, and tools set up for drainage preparation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — New Drainage Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation stage showing new PVC drainage pipes set into the concrete floor, exposed timber framing and brick walls, and renovation materials such as buckets, cardboard, and wiring.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Wall Framing and Plumbing Rough-In</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation progress showing completed wall framing, exposed brickwork, newly installed hot and cold plumbing lines, an open ceiling with visible joists, and a ladder positioned for electrical and ceiling work.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Plasterboard Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation stage showing newly installed plasterboard walls, exposed doorway framing, and a work table with tools set up for the next phase of construction.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Vanity Wall Sheet Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation stage showing the vanity wall with freshly installed plasterboard, cut-outs for plumbing and power, and tools and Gyprock compound positioned on the concrete floor.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Walls Sheet Completed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation progress showing plasterboard fully installed on the bathroom walls, a construction light illuminating the space, a ladder positioned for ceiling work, and early floor preparation underway.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Plaster Stopping Completed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation stage showing the bathroom walls and ceiling after plaster stopping, with smoothed joins, new cornices installed, and doorway framing visible against the natural light from the adjoining room.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Subway Tiles Being Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation stage showing a tiler installing August Blue glazed subway tiles along the lower bathroom wall, with waterproofed blue walls behind and tools and materials spread across the concrete floor.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Tiles and Towel Rail Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation progress shot showing August Blue subway tiles completed to full height across the bathroom walls, with a black heated towel rail newly installed and plumbing fixtures awaiting final fittings.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room</image:title>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Toilet Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Renovation progress showing the newly installed Decina Renee rimless toilet against fully tiled August Blue subway walls, with painter’s tape along the top edge and tools and drop sheets still on the floor.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Vanity &amp;amp; Cabinet Install</image:title>
      <image:caption>Progress photo showing the vanity plumbing installed and the Arova shaving cabinet frame mounted on the newly finished bathroom wall, with wiring ready for the mirror light and flooring already laid.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Bathroom Renovation — Vanity Unit Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Progress photo showing the new white Arova vanity unit installed beneath the partially constructed shaving cabinet, with plumbing and wiring ready for final fixtures during the bathroom renovation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Shower Floor Herringbone Tiling in Progress</image:title>
      <image:caption>Progress image of the bathroom renovation showing the Blue Room’s shower area tiled with August Blue subway tiles and the new white herringbone shower floor being laid, with spacers and painter’s tape still in place.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Black-Framed Shower Screen Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Progress photo of the Blue Room bathroom renovation showing the newly installed black-framed shower screen, August Blue subway tile walls, herringbone shower floor, wall-mounted black heated towel rail, and new toilet awaiting final fit-off.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Vanity and Mirror Cabinet Installed</image:title>
      <image:caption>Installation progress of the Blue Room bathroom showing the new wall-mounted vanity with integrated basin, matte black mixer tap, and large mirrored shaving cabinet above, with the black-framed shower screen reflected in the mirror.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Completed Shower and Toilet Installation</image:title>
      <image:caption>Finished Blue Room bathroom featuring a black-framed glass shower screen, matte black shower fittings, heated towel rail, and soft green subway tiles, with a white toilet and herringbone-tiled shower base completing the renovation.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Walk-In Shower with Matte Black Fittings</image:title>
      <image:caption>Close-up of the finished walk-in shower in the Blue Room bathroom, featuring matte black rainfall and handheld showerheads, a black-framed glass screen, and soft green subway tiles with a white herringbone shower base.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Toilet and Black Fixtures Against Blue Subway Tiles</image:title>
      <image:caption>The finished Blue Room bathroom showing a modern white toilet, matte black heated towel rail, matching black toilet roll holder, and soft blue subway tile walls with light timber-look flooring.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Herringbone Shower Floor With Linear Drain</image:title>
      <image:caption>Close-up of the Blue Room bathroom’s shower floor featuring white herringbone brick-look tiles and a sleek matte black linear drain, framed by soft blue subway-tiled walls.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Sunset Landscape Bathroom Mural</image:title>
      <image:caption>Soft sunset landscape mural in the Blue Room bathroom, featuring warm dusk tones and reflected light over sand and water beside the black-framed shower enclosure.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Mural and Shower Contrast</image:title>
      <image:caption>Close-up of the Blue Room bathroom showing the sunset wall mural beside the black-framed shower with blue subway tiles and matte black fixtures.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Confessions - Fixation #1: The Room That Became    The Blue Room - Mural and Vanity Detail</image:title>
      <image:caption>Bathroom view showing the large sunset wall mural beside the white vanity with blue subway tile splashback and black accessories.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>View from my room, 708, at Wren Urban Nest</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Rocket (one of my two house-sit beagle charges) - don't be fooled! He was incredibly cheeky.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The famine ship memorial beneath cloud-covered Croagh Patrick, County Mayo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A stained-glass window and exposed timber roof inside historic Ballintubber Abbey, County Mayo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Benbulben Mountain rising above the green countryside near Grange, County Sligo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The last golden light of the day catches the Atlantic coastline near Crownarad and Tullid, County Donegal, beneath a dramatic November sky.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The magnificent Sliabh Liag cliffs in County Donegal, rising some 600 metres above the Atlantic and ranking among the highest sea cliffs in Europe.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Outside the former St. Andrew's Church, Dublin 2</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>First glimpse of traditional Irish music at The Cobblestone Pub, Dublin. This is where I lost my Guinness virginity!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Stanley - beagle #2</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“National Famine Memorial” at Murrisk, County Mayo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Medieval abbey ruins and historic graveyard, County Mayo</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The stone-vaulted interior of Ballintubber Abbey, with its altar and stained-glass windows, County Mayo</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The bathroom floor tiles at the house-sit, which reminded me of wagyu beef...</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Highland cattle enjoying the sunshine in a grassy field near the Sligo coast.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A peaceful stretch of Donegal countryside, where wild grasses and gorse-covered hills roll gently towards a sheltered bay beneath a soft November sky.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A closer look at the towering rock faces of Sliabh Liag, County Donegal, with two dramatic sea stacks rising from the Atlantic below. The rugged cliffs reveal extraordinary layers of rock, weathered by centuries of wind and waves.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>St. Andrew's Church, Dublin 2</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The musician's circle, Cobblestone Pub, Dublin</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Butter wouldn't melt! This is a guy who would swipe your breakfast toast and then swear he hadn't.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>National Famine Memorial’s skeletal coffin ship at Murrisk, County Mayo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Clew Bay at low tide, beside Murrisk Abbey, County Mayo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Stone holy water font and plaque commemorating the founding of Ballintubber Abbey in 1216 by Cathal O’Conor, King of Connacht.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Description of next digs</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Benbulben rising beyond the coastal grasslands and waters of Streedagh, County Sligo.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Just up the road from The Rusty Mackerel, a beautiful view across the sheltered waters of Donegal Bay, with green pastures, scattered cottages and rolling hills beyond.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>A moment at the magnificent Sliabh Liag cliffs in County Donegal, with the towering rock faces and Atlantic Ocean providing a spectacular backdrop.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>South Great George's Street, Dublin 2</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Jean, from Ireland but now a New York native, one of the 3 of us on the guided music tour</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Gorgeous orchid on Ballintubber house-sit kitchen window sill</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A close-up showing the detail</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The ruins of Murrisk Abbey and its historic graveyard, County Mayo</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sculpture of the Virgin Mary holding the infant Jesus in the gardens of Ballintubber Abbey, County Mayo</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This sign made me laugh while walking the beagles in Ballintubber, County Mayo</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Streedagh Beach, County Sligo, with its sweeping sands, Atlantic waters and the mountains of Benbulben in the distance.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Looking across the tranquil Teelin Estuary towards the Atlantic, with sheep grazing on the green hillsides near The Rusty Mackerel, County Donegal.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>A panoramic view of the magnificent Sliabh Liag cliffs in County Donegal, stretching along the Atlantic coastline. Standing at the viewpoint gives some sense of the extraordinary scale of these towering sea cliffs.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The most laid-back Highland cattle in Ireland. Perfectly happy to sit in the sunshine and pose for photographs without a care in the world!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>The extraordinary stillness of the Teelin Estuary, County Donegal. Fishing boats rest on glassy waters beneath cloud-draped mountains, with the quiet beauty of Ireland's west coast on full display.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sunlit rocky shoreline at Mullaghmore Head, with layered rock ledges, a boulder-strewn beach and grassy cliffs overlooking the calm blue Atlantic Ocean.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>The winding coastal road around Mullaghmore Head, with Classiebawn Castle silhouetted against the afternoon sun and the Atlantic stretching into the distance.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>Classiebawn Castle silhouetted against the afternoon sky, overlooking Mullaghmore Head, County Sligo.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Happy 60th Ireland 2026</image:title>
      <image:caption>A rather emphatic warning at Mullaghmore Head, County Sligo. Apparently, the Atlantic coastline isn't for the faint-hearted!</image:caption>
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